I don't really understand what you mean by that. Dax and I aren't separate anymore -- in fact, you can't even separate our brainwaves, because even though we have two brains, so to speak, they're completely merged. Doctor Bashir has tried to separate them in joined Trill, actually, and figure out what is the host and what is the symbiont, but we're just so totally conjoined, so there really isn't any privacy to respect, I guess. And the next host will have all of my memories, but it isn't a lack of respect, it's just how our joining works. Most Trill get the option to not be joined and avoid the whole mess.